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And at the end of it all, you'll not only end up with someone who's perfect for you, but also with someone who clearly wants to be there.
Do it right, and you'll never again have to say, *You're selfish in bed, you're a lousy dresser, and my Aunt Leona isn't too crazy about you. You're fired.* |
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| For the romantic, a picnic is an ideal choice as long as the weather cooperates. For inclimate weather you may have to get creative in your location, but don’t give up hope. Traditionally, picnicking is something that established couples do, but don’t be afraid to suggest it early in your romance. In addition to having as simple or elaborate meal as you choose, you can bring along a Frisbee or ball to play catch. You can also take a walk. For the less ambitious or weather bound, you can people watch or share a paper (Sunday papers work especially well). Another benefit is that daylight dating adds a little bit of safety, and you can always have an escape excuse if things aren’t going the way you planned (Examples: I’m babysitting for a friend, I’m having my teeth cleaned, I have to have dinner with my parents – you get the idea.). People also seem to be more honest about themselves in the cold light of day, which is always refreshing. Finally, there is the benefit that you can always continue the date into the evening if things are going exceptionally well. |
You can raise your standards in many ways, be it their looks, their specific characteristics, personality traits, etc. Personally, my highest standards go for personality, because every woman has the power to have a good personality and when gorgeous women see that their looks cannot hypnotize me they try harder to be fun people as well.
When you raise your standards, you become the SELECTOR, instead of the SELECTEE. And this stirs in a woman a whole lot of that thing called sexual desire. So be bold, and stop *hoping* to get a chance with a sexy woman. Instead, hope that SHE has a chance with YOU. Let this attitude show in your initial approach, by not kissing the ground she walks on. Have fun and tease her like you would a good buddy. Without telling her directly, let her know you've got standards too, just like she does. |
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Not only is a guy who does not lead look like a weakling, and is unsexy that way, but he also leaves all the guilt to HER. Women want a guy that can ELIMINATE the psychological guilt involved.
This is why it’s so important to IMMEDIATELY set the tone between you and a woman AS SOON AS YOU MEET HER. The INITIAL IMPRESSION you make will be the one that sticks the hardest with her. So if you are approaching a woman, you must IMMEDIATELY convey that you are LEADING the situation, that YOU are in the dominant position. Don’t make any goofy jokes that make you look like the class CLOWN who people laughed at but did not respect. However, using a TEASING sense of humor that shows you are CONFIDENT AS HELL and a little SUPERIOR makes her feel several things: 1 “Ah, this guy is a MAN, he is worthy of me, he is not a boy.” 2. This guy will LEAD the way to sex so I can “blame” it all on him and feel no guilt. 3. Since he takes charge, the sex will be UNINHIBITED and WILD, because he will LEAD me to a state of ECSTASY. |
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